I’m the middle child, 16. My older sister, 19, thinks I stole the spotlight. What did I do wrong. How did I steal the spotlight. She thinks I took away her right. Her right to have the first grandchild. I had the first grandchild when I was 15. I was pregnant at 14. It was rape. So how did I steal her spotlight? It wasn’t my fault after all. I don’t want to be in the spotlight.